~ A.R. Asher
In a world of filters & instant gratification, times have changed and I’m thankful I grew up in the 80’s and started adulthood in the new millennium…. I’m pretty transparent and true with my intentions. Starting into a New Year I came up with the idea to start blogging. I have NO idea what the hell I’m about to get myself into. I picked the brains of some of my favorite people and decided to roll with it!
At 37, I would define myself as an independent woman that on most days is happy, and my guess would be if I’m not feeling happy most people wouldn’t know?! Usually smiling, laughing, and connecting with others. Those closest to be me would say I’m loyal, compassionate, righteous, fun-loving, creative, stylish, and a bit spontaneous. While I’m certain they’d also say my time management is off, sometimes I have a little too much fun, easily frustrated and overanalyze a bit. I’m far from where I thought I’d be in life; single, no kids, stayed in my home town, & budgeting is not my strong point... Oh, and did I mention I’m by far from healthy and fit?!
So, why would I start blogging? I’m writing for myself, it seems like it may be therapeutic, figured I’d let the key strokes begin. I’m not certain how this will flourish but feel confident I will connect with others.
I’ve been living a pretty good life, dealing with what life has tossed my way. I continue down this path of finding myself and my kind of happiness. I have not been a woe is me person, I do my best to roll with the punches and celebrate the wins.
The good news is; I woke up this morning walking and talking with all 5 senses in place. I have great family and friends, a career that allows me to live comfortably, a nice solid home, fresh food, and last but not least I have my Macy Girl (6 year old Rot Mix that somehow takes after my craziness).
I plan to open the journal that has been swirling around in my head, some things may make sense, while other things I’m sure will seem irrelevant. Being vulnerable is hard and scary at times. Being able to identify your strengths and weaknesses, have tough conversations, and deal with feelings and life experiences help create your own kind of happiness.
I look forward to this journey, let’s get started and “Jess” tell me what you think.